Questions I've Been Asking Myself Recently.
Here’s a few questions I’ve been asking myself lately, maybe could be a bit of inspiration for others:
• Would my parents rather I dedicate myself to work, & retire them, or prioritise connecting, & spending time with them?
• Am I replacing what makes me happy (socialisation, kindness, sport, etc.) for something that I believe/have been taught will make me happy down the line (work, projects, selfishness, etc.)?
• Are my interpretations of my emotions (i.e. feeling bad for feeling sadness despite things being good) valid, and useful?
• What do I want out of life? Not for my parents, partners, friends, etc. for me?
• As a friend, do I want perfection or authenticity & honesty? As a dad would I want perfection or authenticity & honesty? As a partner etc… Is performative behaviour valid then?
• What kind of avatar do you expect to find contributing to online self-help narratives? Is it more likely to be a secure, happy person, or someone who’s struggling? What does this tell me about the online narratives I’m engaging with?
• Is trust the number one indicator of success in friendships, relationships, etc.?